Monday

Note to self iii

Lately I have been having a bit of a tough time, emotionally.
I would say I am quite an emotional person, good and bad. I could be on cloud nine one minute, and then a stormy gloom the next. It's tricky. So, lately, I have been having one of those 'What am I going to do with my life?!' moments. This is the worst kind.
I need to believe in myself and throw away my insecurities.
I need to love myself and not let boys make me cry.
I need to be more positive... About everything I do.
I need to figure out what is going to put me on cloud nine frequently, and if I am even on the right track.

Thank you for listening. Hugs 

18 comments:

  1. sorry you're not feeling your best! sending hugs!

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  2. completely know that feeling. My advice is always go and talk to someone. You'd go to the doctor if you had the flu so doctors can help if you're uncharacteristicly doom and gloom.

    But regardless, look after yourself and take comfort in the fact that no one really has it figured out. Do whatever you feel like doing, if that's catching up with friends you haven't seen in a while just for something different, riding a bike along a route you wouldn't usually, or hibernating at homeand not leaving the house for three days (that's my preffered, but quite often I feel better afterwards)

    take care

    xx
    beks

    polkadotsandsparkles.com

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    1. Thank you for the advice. I used to feel loads worse than this, years back, and I did visit a doctor and councellor and those sort of things aren't the best way to deal with me. It helped to some extent, but I felt I was covering things up and felt that I was getting on with things better my way.

      Hibernating for a few days, having a good cry then going on an adventure the following day helped loads. Thank you lots
      xxx

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  3. We're of the same age, roughly :P I love tea too! And English Roses :) And recently had a silly boy trashed my heart. But you never know that Prince Charming is just round the corner ;) Sometimes, love finds you when you're not looking!

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    1. Thank you for your lovely words. I do have a Prince, but sometimes he makes me sad. Sometimes alot of people make me sad.
      xx

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  4. I get like this all the bloody time, being an emotional person can be great but it can also suck, big time. Don't worry lovely, try your hardest to stay positive and I'm sure you'll be back on track in no time - things have a way of working themselves out even when you least expect them to xxx

    http://reasoningmysoul.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. Definitely, it is rather a huge pain!
      Sometimes it really does suck being a girl with pockets of emotion!

      Thank you lots, and huge hugs
      xxx

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  5. Boo Charlotte sorry to hear! My life seems to be a similar rollercoaster of ups and downs, one moment I'm fine, the next I feel all sad about something <3 Surrounding yourself with good people, good food, drink and books is the way forward <3 <3 xx

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    1. This is perfect advice! Thank you Rachel. Mother took me to a lovely little town last week and we had lovely cream teas and browse around the pretty shops and had good natters. It was lovely and really did cheer me up!
      Thank you again, You are lovely!
      xxx

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  6. Poor you, I'm going through a 'what th hell am i going to do with my life' phase at the moment and it's not the best place to be! I hope you get back into a happy zone soon xx

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    1. Thank you Charlotte. It really is hard, especially at the age of nearly 26! Eek. I'd had so much planned for my life before 30, and time is running away from me! Sigh.
      Never mind. Let's hope we both find something worthwhile stat!
      Hugs
      xxx

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  7. Hugs, hugs, hugs to you. Being an emotional person, life can feel pretty rough, I know the feeling well myself. Make sure you do love yourself, my Mum always used to tell me "if you can't love yourself, how do you expect anyone else to love you?" And it's true really, it needs to start within. Hope you find your cloud 9 very very soon x

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    1. Your mother knows what she is talking about!!!
      Thank you for sharing those kind words.
      I hope you find your happy cloud too!
      xxx

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  8. Aw, I hope you feel better soon! I know how you feel, though, I'm the same way. It will get better though! A cup of tea and a new day can do wonders. Hugs xx

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    1. A cup of tea and a new day DID do wonders! Thank you very much for your lovely words.
      xxx

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  9. Hang in there, honey. Sometimes life really can put us in a slump. One of the things that helps me most is writing a list of things I am grateful for everyday (and sweet/fun memories that were made), and also to stop comparing myself to others. That only breeds jealousy and contempt. You are your own best friend. Look into the mirror and say, "Hey gorgeous, I'm going to take care of you. We're gonna pull through this together, no one will brings us down."

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    1. This is wonderful advice Chantelle! Thank you ever so much. This really cheered me up!
      Comparing myself really is what I have been doing lately. & it was getting me down how easy their life is and how much fun they have and how many adventures they go on.
      Thank you so much!
      xxx

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